Volunteer Coaching. |
People are far to often naive to think that a Tee-ball coach is paid. Or the Merit Badge Counselor gets reimbursed for his time. And contrary to popular belief, the chain gang at Friday night football games are not subsidized. The parents that arrange for rides to the 4-H show often pay for the gas out of their own pocket. This is truly the spirit of America. Volunteerism and generosity is our calling card. These people that do these things do them because they know the benefits that it brings to the kids. These people are willing to spend long hours booking hotel rooms for debate conventions because they know the long term implications. These people are willing to sleep on the cold, hard campground because they know the value of the experience to the kids. The problem is there seems to be a growing gap in America. There are more and more parents that fit into the "show up and pay up" mold. They don't believe they should have to lift a finger for these organizations because they have a life or a job. This mentality is causing the numbers of volunteers to dwindle and thus putting more and more pressure on fewer and fewer people. Sooner or later the numbers will no longer be able to sustain themselves.
It's all part of the elite/entitled mentality of America. And it's like a cancer eating away from the inside out. Forget the fight in D.C., if the entitlement attitude has so permeated our society that we can no longer give freely of ourselves to our kids then we will fail in just one quick generation. So I would encourage you to volunteer for you kid's PTO, Tee-ball, booster club, scout pack, 4-H club, etc, etc to give of yourself freely to whatever needs to be done to help not only your child but all children of these organizations. And then go out of your way to thank the others that volunteer to lead these all volunteer organizations. Those that have the vision to see past their own selfish needs. Those that are willing to help more than their own flesh and blood. Then we might become the true definition of the United States of America.
I hope you get a chance to help someone today. Then I know it will be a great day.
It's a shame to hear about the way people are taking the presence of volunteers for granted rather than seeking to also get involved themselves. I did quite a bit of volunteering in my years as a student and would like to throw myself into that sort of thing again when our son (who is currently six months old) is a bit older.
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Jonathan, we look forward to the day that your son is old enough for you to rejoin our ranks. Lord know we need you.
DeleteThat is so true! I also have noticed the lack of parents that come to cheer their high school kids on in sports and such, other than football and basketball. My daughters ran XC and Track and my Hubby and I saw the same 3 or 4 parents at all the meets. What was worse was when our youngest daughter joined the Speech Team her senior year; we literally were the ONLY parents that showed up to the competitions ALL SEASON! The Speech Team coach was so excited that we came out because he never had a parent come out before, let alone 2 parents and her big sister!
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